[identity profile] syllopsium.livejournal.com 2005-09-08 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. If you reach 40 and have no other factors that affect your socialising, aren't asexual, yet still have no one that comes up to your standards you're being unrealistic in your expectations.

[identity profile] ciciaye.livejournal.com 2005-09-08 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not simply a case of people coming up to your standards. It might be a case of not 'connecting', not having much in common, being afraid of getting hurt/hurt again, or the people you fancy not fancying you. Or any number of other factors.
Sex is not always a case of "you'll do".
CCA