[identity profile] ciciaye.livejournal.com 2005-09-08 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not simply a case of people coming up to your standards. It might be a case of not 'connecting', not having much in common, being afraid of getting hurt/hurt again, or the people you fancy not fancying you. Or any number of other factors.
Sex is not always a case of "you'll do".
CCA